Call Me Ginger Noodles!

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So this past week, I hads me a great lunch! I was one of the winners of the NBC "Locals Only" contest where the prize was a meal personally cooked by David Chang, James Beard Award-winning chef of the Momofuku empire. Of course I took my best gal, and we had suuuuch a good meal, which included smoked chicken wings, ginger noodles, pork buns, and "old fashioned donut" flavored soft serve, as well as drinks provided by Pepsi Natural. The best part about it though, at least for me, being a foodie and all, was that Jiller and I were about to meet the man himself David Chang, and take a photo with him, then thank him for the meal afterwards...it was pretty damn awesome...here are some pics!




















































































































Tackling the Big C

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so yesterday was an interesting day for me...I experienced something that I in all honesty I didn't think I would...I sat with Tanner as he had a chemotherapy session. For those who know Tan, he was recently diagnosed with Hodgkin's Lymphoma, which is a very common form of cancer, and is 90% curable.

I really didn't know what to expect from the experience, I didn't know what Chemo really entailed, but I knew that my job was to keep Tanner in a good mood, and of course to entertain him, that's what I do best! I arrived at the hospital at 11:30 and met Tanner outside, and we went up to the floor, waited for a few min, then went into a room with a comfy chair for him and some small machines. He was given an IV, then for the next few hours a slow drip of different drugs and meds. He was a bit woozy, and explained that the feeling was that of dizziness and that he felt like he was suffering from a full-body hangover.

I brought my bag of tricks, which included the New York Post (i read Page Six to him in a dramatic voice), we gossiped and gabbed, watched Legally Blonde ("Oh, I like your outfit too, except when I dress up as a frigid bitch, I try not to look so constipated."), watched some "Jessica and Hunter", and had as much as fun as we could, given the circumstances.

It's so sad to see someone anyone get diagnosed with cancer, especially someone as young as Tanner, who's only 25. I have so many friends who are negative nancy's all the time, and to see someone like Tan who is so sweet, genuine and nice, it's refreshing. He has an amazing positive spirit, and he always has a smile on his face, which is especially enlightening given what he's going through. I think I need to take a lesson from him and think more about my attitude and how to keep it positive...you only live once...

Chasing the Green Fairy...

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So this past Friday, Ms. Anna and I were bartenders at a fantastic party at our friend's place in the village. The host (our friend/boss for the night) had a huge amount of liquor, four of the largest bottles of Goose, I've ever seen and asked us to push the Absinthe heavily, because he wanted to get rid of it. I of course, heavily pushed said drink, because who doesn't want to enjoy a fun night of giggles and visions?

I love Absinthe, but it really is one of those things that you either love it or you hate it. I personally am in the school of love for it, but not for it's purported hallucinogenic properties, but for it's strong anise licoricey taste and it makes ya a wee bit lightheaded too! Most people when I said "who wants to do a shot of Absinthe?" recoiled in horror, but those up for the challenge took the shot with pride. Now yes, most did haaaate it, it was fun to see the reactions on people's faces after-the-fact.

I first tried Absinthe about a year and a half ago in Prague with my friends, and we drank it after lighting a spoon with Absinthe-laced sugar, stirring and shooting. The more traditional way of consuming is to melt a sugar cube with cold water on a slotted spoon into your glass which then changes the color and consistency of the drink. I have yet to do it this way, which is indeed the most widely used preparation. Since it's legalization in the US in 2007, the drink is popping up everywhere, and I definitely want to drink it the right way...anyone want to findKylie Minogue with me?

this is me consuming Absinthe in Prague, September 2007





Oh Sweet Jesus...

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well, the inevitable has happened. It's hard for me to admit, and I am still struggling to come to terms with this, but I felt that my loyal reader(s) should know what I'm dealing with right now.

My parents have joined Facebook.

WHY GOD WHYYYY!

But here's the dilemma that I now face: they have Friend Requested me. Now look, my parents are awesome, they fucking rock. I share a lot with them, what I do, where I go, shows I see, people I date, blah, blah, blah. But having them have an inlet into my life via the interweb, I don't know if I want that. I don't need them to see the wild pictures that I put up (or ones of me that are put up and tagged), my wildly inappropriate sexual references or anything that falls out of the boundaries of things that you would normally share with your parents.

Is is wrong to not accept their friend request? Do I accept them and just give them extremely limited profile access? I mean, I am friends with a significant amount of my cousins on the book-o-faces, and I don't mind them seeing what it is that I do or what I'm up to (I'm the fun gay cousin who lives in NYC! Wheee!), but giving my parents this little window into my world, that's a whole other cuppa noodles. Any thoughts or suggestions on this people? I can use your help!















Get It While It's Hot! For Realsies!

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Once again for your listening pleasure, I'm happy to present you all with some fun music to get over this rainy hump day. Find some hawt new tracks from No Doubt (they're back!), Third Eye Blind (they're back too!), Dave Matthews Band (they sooo back!!) Eminem (he's back, but do we care?), Jesse McCartney, Death Cab For Cutie, Flo Rida, a few American Idol contestants, an unreleased Madonna track from her "Confessions" album and more!

These songs will only be available to you for the next seven days, so hurry up and download them before it's too late!

1: "20 Dollar Nose Bleed" by Fall Out Boy
2: "We Made You" by Eminem
3: "Triggering Your Senses" by Madonna
4: "Take It or Leave It" by Allison Iraheta
5: "Stand and Deliver" by No Doubt
6: "Poker Face" by Kid Cudi (ft. Kanye West, Common & Lady GaGa)
7: "Pete Wentz Is The Only Reason We're Famous" by Cobra Starship
8: "Patron Tequila" by Paradiso Girls (ft. Lil' Jon)
9: "Not Fair" by Lily Allen
10: "Mad World" by Adam Lambert
11: "Kind of a Girl" by Tinted Windows
12: "Kids" by Chiddy Bang (ft. MGMT)
13: "Jump" by Flo Rida (ft. Nelly Furtado)
14: "I'm Sorry" by Chester French & Clinton Sparks (ft. Wale)
15: "I Quit! I Quit! I Quit!" by The Click Five
16: "Hot Girls in the Bathroom" by The Dallas Austin Experience
17: "Goodbye" by Kristinia DeBarge
18: "Get Your Boots On" (Justice Remix) by U2
19: "Funny How It Is" by Dave Matthews Band
20: "A Diamond and a Tether" by Death Cab For Cutie
21: "Crash & Burn" by Jesse McCartney
22: "Away" by Third Eye Blind
23: "Anthonio" by Annie

Click Here to download the mix!

You will need to plug in the letters on the top right, and they are sorta hard to read, but just look hard and you'll be able to make them out...persistence pays off!

Rain, feel it on my fingertips...

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I could never live in Seattle, I think that the weather would just bog down my spirit. My attitude would just suck given the fact that it's rainy allll the time. I need a nice bright sunny day once in a while, because it's so incredibly helpful on the demeanor. Now, I know that I said that I would live in London, in spite of the shitacular weather, but really, it may have to be a seasonal thing, because it's intense there!

Sometimes I think that I may have a tinge of Seasonal Affective Disorder, because i truly get moody when it's not so pretty out. I sit at the coffee shop and job hunt all day, and when I walked home it started to rain, and instantly my attitude soured. I picked up a bánh mì fromSilent h and walked sullenly in the rain towards my apartment.

The weather today was far from nice...I mean, this is Spring, and yes, this is the weather that we are supposed to be having ("April showers, bring blah, blah, blah"), however since we've been having these 65 degree days interspersed, it's just making me long for the summer and the hot days which are a-coming...cut to me sweating my matzo balls off in mid-August on my balcony praying for a snow day.

You know, I bitch about the snow, I complain about the rain, and I hate the intense summer heat. Conversely, i definitely prefer four seasons versus the one in places like LA or Phoenix.

Well now I'm just rambling, so to keep you occupied, and in case you haven't seen it, this is Lindsay Lohan's eHarmony profile video from FunnyOrDie.com, and it's just so f'in hilarious! Good for Linds at making fun of herself in light of all her craziness...Enjoy!

R.I.P. Noble

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Noble the Turtle

November 25th, 2008 - April 13th, 2009

(probably not his birthday, but the day that I rescued him from the Chinatown man who was keeping him in a bucket outside of his tchotchke store)


Well sadface today, Noble, one of my two baby water turtles died today. I'm fairly certain that he took his own life, I could see it on the expression on his little face. He was always the weaker of the two, and his days were numbered from the get-go. Now, it's just Barnes & _____.


In lieu of flowers, I'll accept cash.


(Noble was the smaller one on the bottom)




HEY! I'm Next Muthaf*cka!

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You know, these days I really think that we as a society really have lost all sense of courtesy. We no longer say please and thank you. We no longer acknowledge people for doing simple kind deeds anymore, and frankly, I'm kinda fed up with it.

Case in point: I'm sitting at my local coffee shop (sticking to my routine), and I had to get up to use the bathroom (damn small bladder!), so I walk to the back, and I go to open the door and this girl who was sitting down across the way shouted "HEY! There's someone in there, and I'm next!" There was no "excuse me, I'm sorry, I'm actually next in line", no niceties, no politeness about it. Did she really need to be so bitchy about it? Was it' really necessary to be so abrasive about it? I think not!

I know that my parents raised me right, I always hold the door for people, I say please and thank you incessantly, and I am grateful for the little things. A few weeks back I held the door open for a woman in my building to let her in before me, and not only did she not say thank you, she didn't even acknowledge the fact that I held the door for her! I mean, I totally didn't need to hold it for her, it wasn't necessary, but I'm just a nice guy with manners and I believe in chivalry. The fact that she didn't even look me in the eye with any sense of gratitude pissed me off. She buzzed someone in the building and was waiting for them to let her in, and when I swiped my key and walked through the next set of doors, she started to follow me. I looked at her and said "nope, sorry" and shut the door behind me. I didn't know this chick, she was stranger to me, and I was sure as shit not going to let her into my building, especially with her lack of gratitude.

I really just believe that we need to say "please", "thank you" and "excuse me" more these days, because there is no reason not to. I'll be trying to get from Point A to Point B in any bar/club/establishment, the place can be packed balls to the wall and the music can be eardrum busting, but I still say "excuse me" as I make my way through. Does anyone hear me? Probably not. Do I always do it? Yes, because it's the right thing to do in that situation, not just push your way through.

Where have our manners gone? When did common courtesy take a backseat to aggressive or ungrateful behaviour? I shan't stand for it no more!


Lawng Islannnd

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I'm taking a holiday sabbatical for the day, I'm out in Woodbury on Long Island for Passover with my best gal Jill's family. It's a yearly tradition for me to come out here and be a part of the family for the night. Always a good time, always lots of wine and delicious food and great company. Chag Sameach to all my fellow Jews and to you non-Jews, Happy Thursday!

No to the O

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well, after some serious consideration and weighing out the pro's and con's, I've decided that I am not going to take part in the Wallpaper Magazine that I mentioned yesterday. Look, I know that it would be a fun opportunity to show my wild side (well, not really show too much of said wild side, per se), but in the long run, is it really worth it?

I think that the concept is quite interesting, and the artist is very well respected, but do I really want people to be finding this video of me online and spreading it like wildfire? Nah, not really. There would be nudity shown, and it's not really pornographic (hmm...maybe I should do this!), but it's probably not something that I want following around me for years to come...no pun intended...If this was only a still image, and not a video recording, well that's a whole other story, and I would totally consider that...but alas, it's not...

An interesting fact that I did learn through this via Joe (of Eric and Joe© fame) is that Andy Warhol's first film was a fixed-camera shot of a guy receiving a blowjob...incidentally the film was titled "Blow Job"...not so creative Andy, you could have picked a better title...Now it's not like said act was going to be taking place during this video/photo shoot, but it's the same concept, the camera, the reaction, etc.

I got some really great feedback from people on this, both on this here bloggiddy blog, and via email...a lotta yay's, a whole lotta nay's...In the end, I've decided that although I am a free-spirited person, my "O" face is best reserved for my boudoir.

Reservations are now being accepted.

showing my "O"

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So I was bored and responded to an ad on Craigslist for a project being conducted by Wallpaper Magazine, which basically involves a famous artist/photographer named Robbie Cooper filming me from the neck up as I am...um...well, it's what you do behind closed doors...I know, it sounds gross, but to understand the technique, go to Robbie Cooper's site , click on Simulations, click on Immersions, click on Photos, then click on Play Video...this video is kids’ reactions while playing video games. This is not sexual, so it's safe for work. the original post that I responded to on Craigslist is here.

He’d like participants to provide the content with which they are comfortable, DVDs or internet sites, whichever we'd would prefer to watch. According to Wallpaper, "these are beautifully lit masturbation portraits, highlighting the beauty in ecstasy so the expectation is masturbation to orgasm. Again, no one will be in the room with you. The camera is hidden behind the screen. Robbie and a very small crew will be in another room recording. You will be filmed from the chest up and possibly interviewed afterwards about your experience. Neither the content on the screen nor anything from your chest down will be seen." So not even the photog or his crew would see my junk...

The photos will be in Wallpaper Magazine, on their site, and possibly part of an art exhibit. I would not be getting paid for this, but it would a fun experience and a great story to tell...

Think this is something that I should do? I have until the end of the day to decide, and based on what I've heard from my friends, it's a mixed bag of yes's and no's...

What do you think?






















pocket changes

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All in all, I had a really nice weekend, all things considered, but I slowly realized that being in the economic slump that I'm in, I really need to watch my budget! I spend money so willy-nilly, and with no viable income, that's just not the smartest thing, right? Look, there are some things that you just can't live without, like food, clothing and shelter, but I guess I need to scale down these things.

Look, I love to shop, there is no denying it. Some would say that I have a bit of a shopping addiction, possibly a bit of a shoe fetish (non-sexual of course!), but I love em! Yes, I buy too many pairs of shoes, and I am slowly running out of space in my closet, but I will never think that I have enough pairs of shoes! On a related note, damn you Topshop! Damn you for bringing your fabulous low-cost fashions to New York after I have loved your store and visited it every time I was in London!

I'm trying to make smart choices when it comes to spending money that comes out of my shrinking bank account, although its rough sometimes. I just booked a ticket to see Sheri Rene Scott, one of my favorite Broadway diva's in her new show Everyday Rapture, but hey, it was only $14, so that's ok, right? I always justify my little purchases because it's not too much money, but this always seems to add up! My friends and I love to go out, we love to have fabulous meals and go to fun bars and get shitfaced drink a bit, and as much as I'm trying my best to curb these expenditures, it's hard as hell in this city! I don't want to take cabs, but sometimes I have to when it's 4am and I'm going home, the subway is just not an option for me.

I remember watching the cast of The Real World: Seattle talking about spending money, and Janet, the sassy Chicagoan said that she was having a hard time with her budget. One of her fellow cast mates made her break down her budget item-by-item on a day-to-day basis, and she said that it helped her out with making those smart choices. I think that this is something that I'll have to do as well, because as much as I hate to nickel and dime my days, I'm not going to get very far by splurge spending every day.

These next few weeks/months are going to rough on my wallet, lets see how I fare, shall we?


this isn't even all of my shoe collection! madness!





















CANCELLED!

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Well, due to the the shitacular weather today, all of our flights to Indianapolis were cancelled, which means no trip to Bloomington. All of our aforementioned fun that we were planning on having has now been postponed, which really sucks. We are all really upset...but, onwards and upwards I say! Bloomington isn't going anywhere, so when we do go, it will be even more exciting!

Side note: I did have a dream that I was in a plane crash last night...maybe that was a sign...ha!

Bton, Here We Come!

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Can I just tell you how excited I am today? Well, in all honesty I have a raging hangover, but I'm pushing past it by utilizing the power of excitement...and some coffee, and some pepto...but more-so excitement! Yes, excitement!

Today, 3 of my best friends and I are traveling to the magical and enchanting land known as Indiana! We're going back to college! Eric, Jiller, Jamie and I are going to Bloomington tonight to reminisce, to eat, to drink and to party like it's 2002! Really this trip came about because we all wanted to go back and see Bloomington, see our houses, apartments, all of our old haunts, and we wanted to go together.

I was in Indy last year for 11 days for work, so one day I decided to drive down to Bloomington for a few hours. It was so weird to be back, to see where I spent the four most formative years of my life. I went to fraternity house, but there was no one there (it was the deaaaddd of summer), I hads me some fried pickles from Trojan Horse (can't wait to have those again tomorrow!), drove to College Mall, passed all of my old classrooms...Anyway, it was a fun four hours, but now, now I get to experience it with my friends who I was actually there with! We're going to go to the winery tomorrow, Sports (where I was the BEST bartender...see below!), Kilroys, and maybe the new Uncle E's since Bullwinkle's has sadly closed...

Wow, it's going to be a great weekend...can't wait...
























Rue Tini

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So I have a routine when I'm unemployed. It's not an exciting one, but it's what i stick to.

9:00am:  I wake up and start to watch the Today Show, which I started tivo'ing earlier in the morning. 
9:30am:  I check my email and Facebook, shower, and get dressed. 
9:50am: Throw on my glasses and my Sheckler Reds and head out the door to El Beit which is my local hipsteresque coffeeshop where the music ranges from Arcade Fire to Metallica and everything in between.
10:00am: Grab a cup off coffee and a table.
10:15am - 11:00am: IM all of my friends, chat about LOST, RHWoNYC, 30 Rock or whatever was on the night before. Check Facebook.
11:00am - 3:00pm:  Job hunt on all of the usual sites. Check Facebook.
3:00pm - 3:30pm: Procrastinate as to whether I should go to the gym in my building later whilst checking Facebook.
3:30pm:  Grab lunch...gotta love $5 Footlongs, aka "the unemployment special"!
3:30pm - 5:30pm: Eat said footlong, watch some tele, relax, gym it, check Facebook on the elliptical.

Really, every day is like this. Sometimes I'll break up the monotony with a trip to the grocery store, or maybe I'll jaunt into the city for one reason or another, but I need to gets myself a new job, so I need to stay focused. Today was a fun exception, Kimmy met me at El Beit and we walked Basil over to the dog park at McCarren Park..Ugh, I love Baz, he's a great pup, so chill, it's mildly hilarious. 

Tonight, I have the Curbed party for the new EDGE building here in Billsburg. Looking forward to pizza from Motorino, beer from the Brooklyn Brewery and wines from Uva...should be a good time. 

Sorry that today's post isn't exactly exciting, I'm getting quite exciting about heading back to Bloomington tomorrow with my IU crew...details tomorrow!

Get It While It's Hot!

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My loyal reader(s), I'm pleased to give you all something to get you over this humpiest of humpdays, Adam's SuperFantastic Mixtape, v4! 

There something for everyone, from a great cover by The Cab, a funny ditty by my old friends from the Grand Opening of Comix, Flight of the Conchords , a throwback from the Actor's Fund Benefit of Hair, a song by former American Idol hottie Michael Johns, a new non-album track from Kelly C, and much, much more!

Here we go:

1: "Chillin" by Wale (ft. Lady Gaga) 
2: "Water and a Flame" by Daniel Merriweather (ft. Adele) 
3: "Part of Me" by Chris Cornell (ft. Timbaland)
4: "Inní mér syngur vitleysingur" by Sigur Ros
5: "Hands In The Air" by Girl Talk
6: "Get Out of My Mind" by Mateo (ft. T.I. and Rihanna)
7: "Every Word" by Ercola (ft. Daniella)
8: "Disturbia" by The Cab
9: "Tip of My Tongue" by Kelly Clarkson
10: "Quick Fix" by VV Brown
11: "Dancing Shoes" by Gavin Degraw
12: "Bret, You've Got It Goin' On" by Flight of the Conchords
13: "The Predatory Wasp of the Palisades Is Out To Get Us!" by Sufjan Stevens
14: "Brother Sport" by Animal Collective
15: "Just Can't Get Enough (Wideboys Remix)" by The Saturdays
16: "28,000 Friends" by Eoghan Quigg
17: "River of Life/Don't Lose Your Head" by Michael Johns
18: "Hair" by Raul Esparza
19: "Painted Windows" by The Pussycat Dolls
20: "Spacemen (Steve Aoki & The Bloody Beetroots Remix)" by The Killers

And before you download it, you MUST watch this amazing video of Ellen Degeneres singing with Jennifer Hudson...I mean, it's kinda phenom.




all abouts me.

i produce events.
i just moved back to manhattan (thank god!)
i love a good meal with friends.
i try and see as much theatre as possible.
i have way too many vices.
i watch too much tv.
i believe in true love.
i love to travel and experience new things.
i have too many pairs of shoes.
i know way too much about pop culture.
i can be a wiseass sometimes/often.
i think that happiness is something that is earned.
i am single and attempting to mingle.
i used to be a publicist, but i'm not no mo.


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adam daniel weiss

adam daniel weiss
30...yep, 30 - williamsburg, brooklyn