Where in the World is Adam Sandiego?

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do you ever feel that there is just more out there in the world?

ever since i returned from Paris, i've had these weird feelings every once in a while telling me that I need to move. I mean, I've been in NYC for about 6.5 years now and I'm not saying that it's time for me to move this very second, but sometimes I just feel that there is so much more out there than here in the city. New York City is the greatest city in the world, but I know that I will not be here forever. For me, if I were to move anywhere in the next chapter of my life, it would be somewhere in Europe, 100%. There is this feeling that I get whenever I'm in Europe, something I never feel here in America. 

I have always dreamed of living in London, it's truly an amazing place, and I have been 9 times...I actually need to go again soon, since it's been almost 4 years since my last trip, and now that I have Benjibu there, I have someone to visit! London has it's charm, it's almost eternal gloomy weather, and more art museums and pubs that I could ever hope for...but will I ever live there? Maybe, who knows. It will always be on my radar for potential places to live.

Amsterdam was a beautiful place (also one I would like to go back to), and apparently one of the top places for ex-pats to live due to it's laid back atmosphere and acceptance of all peoples and ideas. But, knowing me, I would spend all of my Euro's enjoying the many pleasures of the Greenhouse or the Bulldog. I'd be broke within a week.

And then there's Paris. I fell in love with the city the moment that I got there. There is so much culture, so much joie de vivre. Anyone who I have traveled with knows that I enjoy nothing more than to get lost in a city on my own without anyone else, with no agenda to keep me tied down to. I was able to do that my first day in Paris when I was waiting for Ben to arrive. I walked around the Montaigne area on Left Bank, and just wandered around, purposefully getting myself lost...and when I found my bearings, I was staring at the Notre Dame. I mean, it was amazing. This feeling came over me, it was magical. Right after I returned from my trip I was reading a great book by David Sedaris called "When You Are Engulfed in Flames", and throughout much of it he and his partner Hugh live in Paris, and even being away from Paris for a week and reading about it made me miss it that much more. 

I have told people that I want to move to Paris, and although it's highly unrealistic at this point in my life, it's not a complete fabrication. Yes, I don't speak a lick of French (clearly Madame Snow did not do a good job of really embedding the language in me in 7th and 8th grade!), but I being immersed in the culture and the city would most likely take care of that over time...I think if I had someone to move there with (Eric? Jill? Tom?), it would really bump up the likelihood of me settling there for a while...Yes, I would miss Lady New York, but to know that I could get those macarons from Laduree any day I wanted? Well book me a ticket, rent me a flat, I'm there!

I'll be *gulp* 30 in December, and although I joke about it, it is something that I am looking forward to.  I expect many changes in my life in my 30's, and I am fairly certain that living abroad is one of those...where and when, that I don't know. Life is full of possibilities...who knows what will happen, who knows where you will go...

...wherever it is, I'm sure I'll have my *wallpaper city guide in my back pocket and my walking shoes on...point me in any direction, here I go...

free agent

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well, here we go again, I'm unemployed as of 9am this morning. Friday was my last day of work at AvWeek and it was sad, because I really did like (almost) everyone who I worked with there. We had a lil cheesecake, they gave me a card, and thus, I said my goodbyes.

But onwards and upwards I say! Look, it's so easy to get down on things in this economy when you see so many of your friends who are unemployed but I'm going to do my best to optimistic (cut to six weeks from now, me crying in the corner)...like I've said in the past, I think I'm a fairly resilient person, so I hopefully don't see myself being unemployed for too long. Time will tell, so I guess we'll just have to wait and see.

This past weekend was a great one though, really helped me take my mind off of things. I saw a lot of friends, drank far too much and danced my sweet sassy lil ass off. It was a bit tough though last night when my friend Adam's friend asked me what I did for a living and for the first time in a while I had to say "oh, um, I'm unemployed at the moment, but I do event marketing"...uggies...so I had another drink, and I danced a little more...it helps a lil bit...

Eat Up Old Schooler

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so the other night night, my best gal and i ate at Bamonte's, which is right around the corner from my place in Billburg. It's an incredibly old establishment that's been around since 1900 in the same exact location and now it's being run by the 4th generation of the Bamonte family. The place is so old school, like ollldddd school. Many of the tuxedoed waiters have been there for 30+ years, and I can't imagine the stories that have to tell. From my understanding, the place used to have service a lot of mafioso's back in the day, and as you sit at your table you just feel like you are a background player in some Scorcese film or some bad shit is about to go down...Lost City has a good lil review on it...The place is really an institution. 

My building is located right around the corner from Bamonte's and it's only 8 months old (well, it was a warehouse for decades before it was converted into luxe apt's), but seeing all of the gentrification in the area, it amazes me that a family run establishment like this has survived for such a long time. Restaurants in New York have an very low success rate (something like 1 in 10 make it past a year), and Bamonte's has been around for 109 years. Madness!

When anyone asks me what my fave restaurant in the city is, I automatically say Republic. It's 100% reliable, the food is always stellar, the service is fast as hell, and the food is cheap. I've taken friends there, my parents loved it, and it's the go-to place for my gorgeous friend Lauren and I to go whenever we want to catch up. What never ceases to amazing me though is that the place has been open for 10 years (which is a bit of an anomaly in restaurants, so you can imagine how I feel about Bamonte's!), and it's always PACKED. Everytime Lauren and I go there, the place is filled to the walls with diners, and we usually will go at like 6:30 or 7 on a Wednesday or mid-week. It's just a testament to how good it is, and if you have something that works, you stick to the formula. I would hate to see Republic or Bamonte's succumb to this horrid economy like so many others are doing these days. As much as I am a foodie and I love new places, I believe it's establishments like these that are really the heart of the New York culinary scene. Places you know that you can always go to, feel welcomed, and always leave with a full belly and a smile on your face

a change is gonna come...

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things need to change over time. i get that. sometimes you need to reinvent something that is either not working, can be more efficient or needs to just be refreshed. Sometimes change is good, and what you need to succeed. Its a smart move to, sometimes it bombs with a loud thud, other times the people behind the reinvention realize their mistake and own up to it.

today, i want to talk about three such things that are being reinvented, and in my opinion, not for the good.

1. facebook.
look, we all hate the new format, its been universally panned and it just blows. But why was it re-invented? Why did Facebook (nee TheFacebook) CEO 24 year-old young'n) Mark Zuckerberg feel the need to do so? Well, he said that wanted to make it more "relevant" to what people wanted, but in all actuality, he wanted to copy Twitter, which he unsuccessfully attempted to purchase for $500M. First off, Twitter is a fad (7 million users versus facebook's estimated 137 million), and to go out there and copy something to make you look like you are more in the know, well, it was a poor decision Mr. Zuckerberg. Facebook released a statement the other night saying that they are taking into account the massive amount of people who have voiced their opinions on the new platform, and we the users will see changes soon. I'm hoping, because otherwise they will see a mass exodus of users...to me, i hope facebook stays around, we've seen so many social networking sites in our time (Friendster, MySpace, Connexion) in our time and they peak at a certain point, and then lose relevancy...I guess time will tell with this change.


2. Dora the Explorer
Ok, no I don't watch Dora, I don't have any Dora dolls lying around, but I have been doing my best to keep up with the news about her new look. Have you seen it yet? They tweened her up, sexified her, and it's pissing people off. Dora was this cute spunky lil Latino girl who taught kids about the world out there. She was young, sweet, and innocent. Now...well, now she's looks like she booked a one-way ticket to Playa del WhoreWhore. Parents are in an uproar because they say that she looks to trampy, too sexy, and that she sets a bad example. Is this a change that really needed to be made? Mattel says that they did this so kids can grow up with Dora...Well Dora sure did grow up mighty fast! I spotted her perusing the trainers at Vicky's Secret...awwwkwarrrd!
















3."Clue"
Ok, this one is the one that I am most upset/concerned about. We all remember the classic 1985 movie "Clue". I mean, how can you not, it's one of my favorite movies of all time, and I know many people who share the sentiment. The cast alone was insane! Tim Curry, Madeline Kahn, Eileen Brennen, Martin Mull, Michael McKean, Lesley Ann Warren, Christopher Lloyd... I mean the movie goes down in history as one of the funniest, most entertaining and hilarious movies of all time, and it's based on a board game for Christ's sake! That being said, I would like to know who decided that there should be a remake of this picture? Set for release who knows when, it's being directed by Gore Verbinski (who, in his defense knows how to make something out of relative nothing, case in point turning a theme-park ride into an unbelievably successful movie franchise), but I need to ask, is this really necessary? Do we really need to mess with something that in my eyes is a classic? Something that is beloved by all and now has the potential to be tarnished by a remake? I for one am not a fan of this change whatsoever. What do you think?



The Passion of the Weiss

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What is passion? How does one get it?

So I'm on the phone with my parents yesterday before heading to see the London Symphony Orchestra at Lincoln Center (if you can go see this performance, go! it's fantastic and the violinist was amazing!), and I let them know that Friday is going to be my last day at work as I was laid off (budgeting, hiring freeze, etc), and they were upset and felt bad. 

(The following is paraphrased, as any conversation between myself and my parents can become quite verbose. )

ADW: "look, it's not an idea situation, obviously no one enjoys being laid off, but all things happen for a reason, and this wasn't a permanent job, it was a freelance gig."
Mom: "Yeah, it's just not a good time to not have a job."
ADW: "Oh, I'm well aware, I have plenty of friends who don't have jobs right now, and they are struggling, but I know they will be ok, and so will I. Hell, I'll get a job at a coffeeshop if I really need to get by" - This is a lie.
Mom: "Maybe it's time you look into a change of careers. Maybe you don't do events or marketing anymore. You know, your father and I were watching tv when we were in Paris and Donny Deutsch was on talking to the founder of Spanx, and we though it would just be great if you could do something like that and be passionate about it"
Dad: "Mmm hmm"
ADW: "Thanks for chiming in Dad. So you want me to invent Spanx?" I laughed out loud.
Mom: "No, if you could just do something like that or create something and be passionate about it, invent something or another."
ADW: "I know that I'm a passionate person, no doubt about it, but I would need to have something to be passionate towards, I can't just go throwing my passion around!"
Dad: "Ha!" (Dad was clearly taking a back seat to my mom during this convo)
ADW: "Something will come along soon enough that I will truly be passionate about...look, I have a lot of  great creative friends who are unemployed right now, my friends Lauren, Chris, Katie, Joe, Ben...we could start an amazing creative agency, we cover the bases of marketing, events, PR, advertising, promotion and finance...feel free to help me raise some capital."
Mom & Dad: "Enjoy the symphony!"

But it's true what my parents said, I too wish that I could be passionate about something career-wise.  The woman who invented Spanx got it right, so did my dad. I have always looked up to my father, he got his pilot's license before he got his drivers license...my grandfather would drive him to the airport so that he could go fly them around! Now, even though he retired from flying, he still works on airline security, something that he is very passionate about and something that he does very well. He's even parlayed it into a fledgling media career as well, he's the Washington DC CBS go-to guy for all things air related, which to me is pretty damn cool!

For me, I love theatre, I love events, I love the media. How can I harness my passion into something that combines all of my interests, something long-term and sustainable? Where is that one thing, that one career that I can be passionate about? Have I already found it but not succeeded? Have I yet to stumble upon it? I'll keep on searching, this I know...

welcome back, me.

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It's been a long time since I've written a blog, hasn't it...a lonnnng time. Why the re-emergence on the New York Blogosphere scene you ask? Well, I think it's just time. For those of you who have been with me since back in the day, you know that I write this blog because...well, I just like it, ya know? Sure, I may have four loyal readers (myself being two of those), but part of the reason for this blog is not only to keep you entertained, but to keep myself occupied as well!

what to expect: well, really i don't think that i need to have an agenda or anything of that nature, but I am definitely going to consider my content and my audience more this time around. I realized that I may have gotten too personal about the stuff that I posted, relationships, friends, all of that. however as much as this is my blog, and I reserve the "right to write", I do plan on censoring myself more. Life is for the unexpected, and that's really how I get by each day. I never know what's going to happen, and neither will you! I can't guarantee that I'll write every day or every two days, but it will be fairly regular. Bookmark me!

The template I am using is a bit wonky, and everything may shift to the right side of the screen if you have a square monitor...also you may see some text all over the place, but hey, i'm all over the place, so i guess it's apropos, no?

Until my next post, in case you have yet to see it, I encourage you all to view the Top 60 Ghetto Names. In a word: Racist. In two words: Racist and Brilliant.

I'm A Publicist

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my former blog, I'm A Publicist, can still be found in it's entirety and in it's old format here: I'm A Publicist. It's also archived on this site...feel free to take a look back at what my life used to be like...

all abouts me.

i produce events.
i just moved back to manhattan (thank god!)
i love a good meal with friends.
i try and see as much theatre as possible.
i have way too many vices.
i watch too much tv.
i believe in true love.
i love to travel and experience new things.
i have too many pairs of shoes.
i know way too much about pop culture.
i can be a wiseass sometimes/often.
i think that happiness is something that is earned.
i am single and attempting to mingle.
i used to be a publicist, but i'm not no mo.


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adam daniel weiss

adam daniel weiss
30...yep, 30 - williamsburg, brooklyn